Village Sojourn

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We joined my parents for a weekend at their kampung house recently.

When we arrived, my daughters zoomed straight to the living room, got the TV remote and started flipping the channels on the ancient non-plasma mounts-television. Only to soon announce that there was no ASTRO (satellite channels).

Or as I quoted their very loud complaint, “WHAT! There is no (Channel) 613?!”

How different it was for me as a child, coming here to visit my then living grandparents. For many years, they were not connected to electricity. We had a love-hate relationship with the firewood hearth as theĀ  smoke made food smell heavenly but made us smell horrible. Bath-time meant an uphill trek to a well for water that came straight from a mountain range – read, COLD.

Even when they finally had power and the only entertainment came from the radio, we don’t missed the TV back home.

For me, it was because I enjoyed a lot of reading here. It was here, in the midst of simple and poor villagers, that I found old classics such as the “I capture the castle“, the first novel of the author who would eventually wrote the “One hundred and one Dalmations”, from my father’s collection of school books from the days when lessons were taught by Western missionaries.

As for my kids, despite the initial issue with the TV, they decided that kampung life was interesting and did protest a little when we told them that it’s time to leave.

*Picture : Patau village, Tambunan

He Who Kept Me Sane

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Left at home with only one child to mind, it was easy to be the “perfect” mother.

My child was smiled at more. She got tickled and chased around the room to her delight. She drenched herself, made huge puddles on the floor and received no rebuke. She was indulged in orgies of nonsense chatter.

It thrilled her to no end to feel that her mother has all the time in the world for her. I want to be this kind of mother all the time.

But dividing my attention to 3 demanding kids is strenuous – physically, mentally and emotionally. It’s a huge feat trying to explain coherently to an inquisitive 6 years old while trying to get a squirmy 4 year old to sit properly when an impatient 1 year old made it known to everyone that she wants to be fed NOW!

Going crazy is easy – had it not been for one person in our lives.

My children are lucky to have a father who is involved in their everyday lives. I am lucky that he can take them off my hand once in a while to let me enjoy hobbies like photography. While not exactly postcard printing quality, they are satisfying as a light “escape”.

Then I can happily go back to dividing myself to 3 demanding kids without going crazy.

*Picture : Mahua river, Tambunan

No Alcohol Please

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Impressed with the selections in the drinks menu of a restaurant in small town Keningau (Sabah) last holiday, I decided to order drinks with fancy names.

I was about to choose one, when I realized that I was actually on a COCKTAIL list – which meant alcohol – which meant a NO-NO. Not that I have anything against alcohol – a natural fat burner since it can make you feel full.

At least, not for lunch and definitely not with the kids.

The thing was, living in a dry country, we are so used to restaurant’s menu with no alcohol. Seeing this page, I automatically assumed it was a mocktail menu.

So it was funny that at a time when I was willing to be adventurous when it comes to drinks, it had to be at a place where there are no mocktails.

*Picture : Honey Sweet, Keningau

Run Around Baby

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One teacher I always bumped into at my daughters’ school once commented that she felt sorry for my youngest child, having had to follow me to school every time.

I guess she did not realized that my daughter loves coming to school with me. She got to explore the wide open space to her heart’s content, adores chasing after birds, being cooed by passing by ladies and even students.

It is actually me she should feel sorry for.

At my child’s age, there is nothing she loves more than to make me chase her. She finds it amusing to ignore my calls, take the opposite direction from where I want to go and the most annoying habit, to run away when I walk towards her.

Who would have thought that minding a child her age is more potent than any safe diet pill or exercise regime, as I am constantly “on a strider” (chasing after her) or “weight-lifting” a couple of barbells (carrying her).

A Car To Dream About

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With their distinctive front grille, Audi cars are easily noticeable. There are plenty of their sedans on the road and it is always a pleasure to see one because they are very good looking cars.

But of all their models, the Audi Q7 a big hulking SUV is, in my opinion, their best offering.

However, being in the $1++K range, which means expensive for the average Bruneians, there are relatively few Audi Q7s on the road. Luckily you can get relatively cheap auto insurance quotes as compare to Malaysia, with its big cc and being an imported range.

This is the definitely the best looking car in this category and it always attracts my attention whenever I see one. I like the height and the fact that this kind of cars will be effortless to drive on any road condition – bumpy, potholes, flooded etc.

Anyway, I am thinking of this particular car right now because I saw one parked gray Q7 earlier today – and it reminded me again that this is a car worth dreaming for.

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