Dancing Queen

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My 7 year old had danced, sang and played music as part of her schools activities more times than I could count with my 2 hands. My second child is going to be just as active and so will the youngest too I am sure, when she starts school.

Accommodating their practice sessions and performances are exhausting but I take it in stride because I want them to remember school as fun too. And at this point, performing in school means putting on striking costumes, fancy hairdo, make-up and they simply adored it all!

Of course it helps that they are talented – which I used to think came genetically from me (because it can’t be from their father).

Until the admittedly tricky (but one which I was so confident of getting the hang of) Magunatip dance stumped me recently.

While she, despite being her very first try, took to it easily.

I wanted to blame my uncooperative legs on that glass of wine I had at that time but it sounded lame against my husband’s explanation : my daughter is a dancing veteran and “How many times have YOU performed on stage?” – he asked me, pointedly.

Yes, I shall do just what he told me to do next time : leave quietly when she is dancing and let her take the spotlight.

Speed Boat Nostalgia

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Whenever you drive by Kampung Ayer in Brunei, there will be at least one speed boat on the water, with passengers travelling between the village and Bandar Seri Begawan.

It is quite exciting to see those boats from the safety of dry land.

Because as much as I enjoy the rides I had more than 10 years ago – when I was younger, more adventurous back in the days when untamed flyaway hair looks so utterly sexy – I doubt I will willingly go on another ride.

At least not on boats without any roof (UV rays, people).

And definitely not speed boats because the old-lady in me will be holding on the sides for dear life. Gone are the days of standing with arms outstretched to feel the breeze ala Winslet – not to mention that the diCaprio in my life will just be pulling me back down none too gently and tell me to behave.

Besides I hair-sprayed my hair for a reason and no flyaway whatsoever is tolerated.

So now, the only time I will ever get the rush of a speed boat – in motion – will probably be if I am on some roadside and a car or truck with a boat hooked up via one of those boat or trailer hitches passes by.

Yes, how very gripping.

Two-Legged Tyrants

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A typical morning which starts with child number two pronouncing, loudly, that she “Will NOT eat that! NO WAY!” when she saw what’s on her plate, 10 feet away from the dining table.

Tension was cooled somewhat when child number one jumped happily, proclaiming “THAT’S what I’m talking about!” when she saw what on her plate.

As for child number three, she just had to join in the like/dislike bandwagon so early in the morning with an enthusiastic “I LIKE anchovies!” – never mind that anchovies are nowhere in any of the breakfast menu.

When breakfast is all done, it was on to preparing their school snacks – another trip to the kitchen barely 1 hour since breakfast.

Now it was child number one’s turn to exclaim, “You know I HATE that!” when she saw what’s on the chopping board. And child number two’s turn to, seeing what finally filled her tea break container, sneak bites out that I had to rescue it from being eaten up before she even reaches school!

Such is the difference in their taste that breakfast and snack is always a hit and miss – depending on how indulgent I am feeling. On not so typical days, they will get what they like to eat even if it meant having to face the stove and more preparation that I care to do on normal days – not to mention having my hair scented with all kind of fumes and it was not even half way through the day.

These are days when I wish that I can fast-forward to the times when the only headache I get is deciding what to buy as their gift for college graduations and what to wear for their convocations

And start shaking my legs, waiting for them to indulge ME in my all my fussy demands.

Trees Abound

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There was an article that says Brunei government housing schemes will no longer be offering individual homes but high-rise apartments similar to those in Singapore in the near future.

We attended a conceptual show unit of these future high-rise apartments and was quite impressed with the design. It was the size that not many Bruneians will be too thrilled about – since we are so used to spacious landed properties.

One comment on this that I remembered well was why the need for high-rise housing when we have acres of undeveloped land. In fact, this was the exact question a friend asked me years ago when told how hard it is to buy or build houses here.

I have no conclusive answer to this except that despite the scarcity of (affordable) houses, we appreciate being in a country with so much greens around.

I will definitely not be happy living in a highly developed city with no trees in sight and I would not want my children and their children to grow up in a land where it’s concrete for as far as the eyes could see.

So if they need to live in high-rise apartments in the future but are guaranteed views of green lush hills nearby, I am all for it.

Engineers Talk

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With two engineers at home, their conversations are sometimes discussions about work.

Although they are from slightly different engineering fields, they work in relatively similar industries and so the discussions will revolve around one engineer getting technical explanation about certain mechanical aspects with the other engineer learning about the complexities of work in a certain industry.

A win-win scenario for both.

However, they are not the only one benefiting from these discussions. My understanding is half of what was discussed (and when they speak jargons with the likes of industrial bearings, I will be completely lost).

But I was happy to know – thanks to listening in to one of their conversations – that a neighbour’s water pump will break down sooner than the crooked-about-to-break ledge it was sitting on.

And I was proven right soon after.

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