Made-Up Eyes

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When it comes to performing, beside wearing fancy costume, the part where they got to put on make-up is my kids’ favorite moment.

Today, my eldest daughter learn of another make-up trick. Eyes expertly drawn with liquid liner – something I don’t do because I hate all the work involved in removing them.

She liked her made-up eyes so much that she insisted (and I relented) on letting her keep her make-up on when we went out for dinner.

Problem came when it was time to remove those nicely-drawn liners on her eyes.

While she was happy to have her eyes lined, she was not happy to have them removed – because it meant having oil-soaked cottons rubbed against her eyes that don’t need any eyelash growth products at all.

The main reason why I always kept my own eye make-up to the bare minimum!

*Photo : Balinese Legong dancer

Jungle Spirits

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Hopefully when we go back to Sabah this December, I will get a chance to re-visit the Mahua waterfall in my father’s kampung – some of my photos taken during our last trip here.

I plan to focus more on wildlife and hope to get more time going down on my knees to see the kind of insects and plants that grow in abundance in this semi-virgin forests – which solely depends on my husband’s patience.

Another problem is, I was just told of an incident where a photo taken in a similar forest includes an unwanted subject of the supernatural kind – unless it’s a trick of the light or camera sensor gone wrong?

Worse, if I had told my mother – the typical superstitious Asian – she would straightaway conclude it with an of-course-it’s-a-you-know-what! But “trained” by her constant stories cum lessons on jungle-spirits survival, I sort of know what to do.

Sprinklings of holy water, verses of prayers and the native way of keeping safe in a forest, “Minta maaf, saya tidak nampak kamu ni..” – forgive me, I cannot see you.

(And I do NOT want to see you in my photos too – just need to figure out how to communicate this part).

On Good Credit

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On the subject of credit card, I learn something new recently while watching the RMCN credit services in Youtube – “good credit is like cash in the bank“.

This video is about an American company which specializes in repairing credits i.e. improving ones “creditworthiness” to increase ones chances of getting their loans or credit cards applications approved. In layman language, banks (among others) will check the financial background of anyone applying for credit to gauge and determine an applicant’s ability to pay. Bad debts or defaulting on payments all contribute to low credit scores and minimises the chances of getting loans or credit card approved.

One testimonial in the video speaks of how this company helped one lady raised her credit scores and successfully allowed her to get a housing loan.

I have heard of credit scores but I am not sure how anyone’s creditworthiness is improved and even more unsure if we have such companies that do similar services here in Brunei.

Making Small Talks

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I grew up watching my father chatting with anyone, anywhere!

Seriously, who would think of chatting to a bunch of big-biceped and be-tattooed American bikers and expect to live to tell the tale? Yes, we lived through that and there’s even a photo of my then-scrawny and nerdy younger brother looking like he was photoshop-ped on a bike double his size.

So I have a little of this ability of being able to make small talks and it doesn’t really daunt me to be in a room full of strangers.

Of course it helps to be introduced around but once a handshake is made, I can start chatting or make the other person chat about anything – from weather to food to music to gossip to books to step stool to even diving spots – which is funny because I don’t dive and my last trip to anywhere dive-able was more than 10 years ago!

But my favorite (a little lame but never fails to work) small talk subject especially when I am talking to foreigners is – how do you like Brunei.

Creepy Roadside

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Chatting with my parents is always entertaining.

Being very sociable couple, they come across all kinds of people and hear all sorts of stories like one tension-filled funeral complete with threats of rifle-shootings! Ten times more interesting than any make-believe soap operas.

But their best stories are ones that never fail to give me goosebumps – even told many times over.

Such as one set more than 30 years ago when roads that linked the interior towns of Sabah were still sparsely used with few vehicles on the road. Just a few kilometres out of any interior town, it’s thick virgin forest on both sides of the road.

On one such road, my father stopped his car, rolled down his window and gave in to his fatigue. Suddenly, he was jolted awake by some licking/slurping sounds coming clearly and loudly from behind his car.

His tired mind decided some cows were drinking water nearby – until he was again awaken by the same sound.

This time he was reminded that he was in a thick jungle IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT.

Of course there were no cows around…

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